SERONOK BILA MAK JADI BFF

Hi assalamualaikum awesome readers! ;)

Ok today I nak share something dgn korang and i rasa tajuk yg nmpk menarikkkk! (I ja yg rasalah) hehehehe. Nevermindlahkan! Mesti seronok kan bila ibu kita dpt jadi bff selalu schoolmate ja. Ni ibu pulak jdi ‘member’ but remember this POLITE ingat she’s your mum not you friends. But actually lumrah kehidupan is memang anak selalu share her/his problem with their friends nak compare dgn mak ayah memanglah jauh beza and jarang sgt nak jumpa anak nak share problem ngan mak ayah. It happen because mereka lebih percaya kawan than family.

So it’s time for make some changes, why not korang share masalah ngan mak korang? And mesti seronok and sangat awesomelah kalau mak ngan anak jadi BFF! Hehe peace! Takda halanganlah if nak share problem ngan makkan? So here I give you a short list how you start to make a relation like ‘BFF’ with your mum. Here you go~

1.       Start with conversation

First of all korang mestilah start dgn perbualankan? Nak ajak makan pun, ada conversation jugak heheheh. Bkn snang bila ibu dan anak nak faham perasaan each other tapi boleh kalau ada usaha! J the most important is both of you kenalah rasa hormat each other. Sebab bkn anak ja yg kena hormat ibu, but the same thing mak kita pun kenalah buat jugakkan? And the second thing this is kenalah tolerate each other okay!

2.       Thrust out interest

Yeah! That’s right! Tunjukkan minat korang nak ‘dekat-dekat’ dgn ibu hehehehe. Based of  your conversation with your mum, alah ceritalah something yg interesting yg buat mak korang terhibur. Tp kalau mak korang tak terhibur nak buat mcmnakan? Heeeee! Taklah! DON’T GIVE UP! Maybe korang kena bgi masa utk mak korang fahami your teenage world (ayat perggh) so yalah both of you tak sama umurkan and msing2 kena open-minded, byk sabar kalau nak serasi tu.

3.     Saling mendekati

Besides, korang ceritalah aktiviti harian kat school, or else and both of you kenalah share minat & kegemaran yg masing-masing.so why not korang ajak ibu korang join aktiviti harian korang mcm jogging, shopping, or segala ing ing lah hehe! Then ajak mak korang stay minum2 kat cafe yg selalu korang pergi pastu sharelah cerita2 korang ngan kawan2 korang kat ibu or share pasal boyfriend/girlfriend ke? Heheheheh =p tpi cerita tu step by step, first ceritalah pasal2 kawan2 kat kolej and blablabla… pastu baru cerita pasal couple =)

4.          Open & saling menerima

Hello! Kita mmg dah tau kan yg dunia kita berbeza tetapi perasaan kita sama. Sama-sama ada perasaan marah, suka, duka benci dan sayang. So takda masalah if you or your mum jalinkan satu relationship yg murni =) most important sama2 must open-minded dlm menerima kelemahan masing2. Ketepikan sifat ego yg mmg ada dlm diri kita, and sebaliknya try to ambil berat dan tolak ansur spya hubungan tu mudah meresap ke sanubari ibu or AWAK! =)

Nampak macam complicated but yeah bukan senang nak senang rite? Why not kita jadi BFF ibu kan? Banggalah weh! J anyway, goodluck!

Assalamualaikum, peace yaw!

P/S: PERASAN TAK KEJAP CAKAP ‘MAK’ KEJAP ‘IBU? Hehehe kalau rasa annoying, ignore ja k!